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[Piglet]

So,this is basicaly an offtopic topic we just discuss whatever we want and what is brought up.


I'll start,

So first off, a little bit about my love life: I really dig this one girl, but she doesn't want me, and i can't get over her. Now there is also another girl that maybe wats meh, and she is really good looking and nice and great, but, I still can't get over girl 1 (who also is my best friend).


So today i went back to school (have nothing to do there, i already had my exams and am awaiting the results) and girl 1 came with me, we talked and had fun, the usual you do with friends.

a few days ago i decided to go all out for girl 2 and try to forget girl one, but after today i am just drawn back to her, and it sucks.

[Malus Rune]

I'm really into the girl I mentioned in the Corrupt-a-wish topic; she's really pretty and friendly and clever and I get the feeling that, if she isn't already into me, it won't take much work on my end. But I'm really worried that if I do get her to like me, I'll be too nervous to ask her out and waste the opportunity.

[darth_yannick]

PigletCNC, on Jun 5 2008, 08:09 PM, said:

So,this is basicaly an offtopic topic we just discuss whatever we want and what is brought up.


I'll start,

So first off, a little bit about my love life: I really dig this one girl, but she doesn't want me, and i can't get over her. Now there is also another girl that maybe wats meh, and she is really good looking and nice and great, but, I still can't get over girl 1 (who also is my best friend).


So today i went back to school (have nothing to do there, i already had my exams and am awaiting the results) and girl 1 came with me, we talked and had fun, the usual you do with friends.

a few days ago i decided to go all out for girl 2 and try to forget girl one, but after today i am just drawn back to her, and it sucks.

Yeah, I've also been in the same situation as you're in. Took me quite a while to get over that girl, but now I am
We're still friends though... But I know that is worth s@!$.

Anyway, I've had this terrible Java exam today.
So I powered up NetBeans, and started programming, and I'll save you the very boring part and only tell the boring part
So I was programming until I got something worth testing, and the adrenaline was rushing trough my veins, and I compiled the project using F9, whiped off some sweat, and pressed Shift+F6 to execute... and it didn't work!
But lateron I discovered that I used > in stead of <, so eventually it did work

Edited by darth_yannick, 05 June 2008 - 01:19 PM.

[Malus Rune]

Any Sonata Arctica fans on the forum?

I've been listening to them for the last hour non stop and I am once again reminded why I named them as my favourite band. Anybody else like them?

[deltasniper]

Just ask her out. Worst is theyll say no.

[Piglet]

Yeah wel, i did that, girl 1 said only as friend, girl 2 is still doubting if she wants to be just friends or more.

[darth_yannick]

Canadian Idiot, on Jun 5 2008, 08:27 PM, said:

Any Sonata Arctica fans on the forum?

I've been listening to them for the last hour non stop and I am once again reminded why I named them as my favourite band. Anybody else like them?

Yeah me
I'm going to see them at Graspop by the end of the month

PigletCNC, on Jun 5 2008, 10:23 PM, said:

Yeah wel, i did that, girl 1 said only as friend, girl 2 is still doubting if she wants to be just friends or more.

Bad sign dude

[Piglet]

I knoweth, that would be 2 years without sex in a few weeks.

[Malus Rune]

deltasniper, on Jun 5 2008, 09:15 PM, said:

Just ask her out. Worst is theyll say no.

I would ask the girl I like out...but she sits either next to, behind, opposite or in front of me in most subjects; things could get kinda awkward if I did.

[Piglet]

Just ask her to hang out with you, as friends. And if she is disapointed when she hears the word 'friends' then HIT IT LIKE YOU'LL HIT A TURKEY! (or in other words, just befriend her, get to know her better and let her know you better)

[Malus Rune]

We are already sorta friends...I know that, love or not, she likes me as a person. But she keeps to an all-girl group of three-to-seven members, half of whom don't like me and the rest of whom are clever enough to see the intrusion as a blatant attempt to get close to her.

I'm just going to have to do the most direct thing- next year, of course, when the seating has changed.

[darth_yannick]

Canadian Idiot, on Jun 6 2008, 12:06 AM, said:

We are already sorta friends...I know that, love or not, she likes me as a person. But she keeps to an all-girl group of three-to-seven members, half of whom don't like me and the rest of whom are clever enough to see the intrusion as a blatant attempt to get close to her.

I'm just going to have to do the most direct thing- next year, of course, when the seating has changed.

Introducing yourself in a girlygroup is tricky. I did it once and it went okay, but I wasn't in love with one of them so that did definately help

[Piglet]

haha! Well, while her friends might see it, she might not, girls work strange in that way. Trust me, just go for it before someone else does, or you'll regret it forever.

[darth_yannick]

PigletCNC, on Jun 6 2008, 12:11 AM, said:

haha! Well, while her friends might see it, she might not, girls work strange in that way. Trust me, just go for it before someone else does, or you'll regret it forever.

True that!

[Malus Rune]

PigletCNC, on Jun 5 2008, 11:11 PM, said:

haha! Well, while her friends might see it, she might not, girls work strange in that way. Trust me, just go for it before someone else does, or you'll regret it forever.

I can't! I try to, but it's like trying to work out the courage to jump if going on a first time skydiving trip. I've only twice ever managed to work up the courage. The first time, I was looking for the girl in question with another group of boys because they wanted to find her as well; I thought it would be about work or something, so when we found her I told them to say what they were going to say first so that we could be alone for it- and one of them asked her out! And she said yes. The second time (almost a year later, the same girl) she said she was taken. She's still taken. And I've turned my attentions to someone new. So nothing came from the whole thing except a lot of sleepless nights.

Edited by Canadian Idiot, 07 June 2008 - 03:19 PM.

[TheDude]

I'm gonna tell my own story.

First off, I have often said that "Life is like an explosive; you don't know how to handle it, and it'll blow up in your face."
And now I can't even follow my own advice/quote.  You see, in my lunch, there's this one girl who sits behind me almost every single day.
She's one of those girls who thinks that she's all hot (IMHO, after a couple hundred plastic surgeries, she would be lucky to look like michael jackson), when she's really not.  And I hate her.  She has treated me like s@#! this entire year, along with these 2 other guys.  It's gotten to the point where I am seriously considering taking a lunch tray and teaching all three a lesson (Lesson= Hitting each in the face with tray=hurts for them=suspension for me). But I only have 6 days of school left until summer vacation... What should I do? Seriously, one of these kids really needs some serious disicpline.  He is the single most arrogent bastard I know, has the worst god complex I've ever seen, and has an ego twice the size of Texas.

[Piglet]

Do nothing, just wait it out.

[TheDude]

PigletCNC, on Jun 6 2008, 04:32 AM, said:

Do nothing, just wait it out.

I've been doing that for the past 5 years.

[darth_yannick]

Hitting the guy isn't really discrete, and you will be the one who has to go to the headmaster, so you have 3 options: do something discrete at school, hit him outside school, or just do nothing. Make your choise

[Zaknaril]

Canadian Idiot, on Jun 5 2008, 06:30 PM, said:

I can't! I try to, but it's like trying to work out the courage to jump if going on a first time skydiving trip. I've only twice ever managed to work up the courage. The first time, I was looking for the girl in question with another group of boys because they wanted to find her as well; I thought it would be about work or something, so when we found her I told them to say what they were going to say first so that we could be alone for it- and one of her asked her out! And she said yes. The second time (almost a year later, the same girl) she said she was taken. She's still taken. And I've turned my attentions to someone new. So nothing came from the whole thing except a lot of sleepless nights.

Here is a suggestion from a guy twice most of your ages  

If you and this girl have friends in common, try to find a way to arrange an opportunity of social interaction with her in a group.  For instance, get a few friends together (including her) and go to a movie or the mall or something.  Then she is more comfortable and less guarded, and you can find an opportunity to let her get to know you better.  Perhaps you can get her off to the side for a few minutes and talk.  This has worked for me many times.  Good luck!